Path to the Stars performed by Jay, a 2018 SPEAK*Girls participant. Featuring footage from the 2018 SPEAK*Girls retreat & Capital Fringe performances.
Dear future me,
I hope that by the time I meet you, you’ve either chased your stars or are soaring your path through the galaxies. I’ll meet you in the middle. Know that you have a long trip ahead of you but you’re pushing through just fine. I hope you never forget to use the starlight to guide you, but never to define you. The true stardust is etched on your very molecules, and it trails behind you like a lifeline for when you ever find yourself lost. Don’t let asteroids intimidate you. Don’t let them strike you either. But if you fall off course, I hope you find the strength to carry on. I know you have it. Your halo shines even when you don’t see it and the keys to your destiny are secured within your ribcage. Nothing is written in the stars, not those stars anyway. But everything’s engraved in the stardust that smears your veins, written in the blood of your cells. What you do with that blood and dust is what determines your future. Listen to the brontide of a storm, prepare yourself for it. But don’t let it scare you off. The scariest thing about storms is the rumble of thunder. They pass faster than they occur. You’re going to be okay. Progress isn’t linear or aesthetic or glassy. It is still progress, even if it doesn’t always look progressive. Your future is still bright even if it doesn’t always glisten. But you do, even when you don’t see it. I’ll meet you in the middle. I’m still in the process of preparing my spaceship and putting on my moon boots. But I’m in no rush, I trust that you’ll be there and waiting. I don’t have to focus on you. I need to focus on me so that when the time is right, I’ll meet you when I’m not looking. I need to focus on me because that’s the only way to get to you, not through pursuit but by walking at my own pace and taking the time to enjoy the view and admire the construction of my own atoms.
Dear future me,
4 months ago I graduated college, which was hard.
2 months ago I was in D.C. with SPEAK*, doing our best to change some lives with art and my grandfather passed, which was hard.
1 month ago I had opened a show (my first comedy in 3 years!) and was headed back to Dallas while planning a move to Chicago, which was hard.
This whole time I was very anxious and very depressed. People tell you post-grad is tough, and I got a heaping pile of ouch. Change is hard, and it's much easier to follow your head than your heart. It's even harder to be honest with yourself. I was quite lonely and completely lost.
But I took a massive leap of faith and that changed everything.
2 weeks ago I bought a one-way plane ticket.
10 days ago I turned 23.
9 days ago I moved to New York City.
No job, no solid working connections, no permanent place to live.
Now, I am surviving and sometimes thriving in my new home. I have a few jobs, am actively pursuing a career, and am connecting with friends new and old in ways I never have before. It's often scary, but the little things pay off. None of these are really that big, but I'm putting my head down and doing the work. I'm still anxious, still often depressed, but I'm here. Honestly, I am proud to be "doing the thing".
Moral of the story is: If you're stuck and lost, it's okay. Take a leap of faith, gamble on yourself. I promise you are capable of more than you think. You're all you've got, so get out there and DO THE THING! Even if you just get out of bed and take a shower, it's the first step (and trust me, I have many days where this is a mammoth challenge). Go change this world, team. One step at a time.
- Brooke, SPEAK* Facilitator
My future is big, but my tree is still growing.
What do I know, and what do I want to discover?
I know the sun is in the middle of the solar system.
I know that my parents love me.
I know the Earth is round and not flat.
I know that Uranus has rings, as well as Saturn.
I know how to sew.
I know about time: quarter past, half past, and quarter ‘til.
I know how to do art, but one thing I really want to know is how to make a vase.
I know that Michelangelo did the Sistine Chapel and the David. Leonardo da Vinci, he made a lot of paintings; he is the Renaissance man.
I want to play with clay, do sculpting, putting the clay together, and all that.
I know that clay is made of mud. Once the mud turns into clay, then you can cut it, and then you do the other process.
I want to discover somewhere in the ocean, and if the other planets have oceans as well. Do they have water?
I know that Jupiter has a red spot which is actually a hurricane, and I wonder how that hurricane got there, how did it begin.
I know that Jupiter has around 29 moons.
I want to discover the rest of my relatives.
I do know that I am mostly European, but there’s more to learn about my ancestry and my tree is still growing for my future to come.
I will have a good job, have a nice husband, go to college, and have friendly kids.
But right now I still am working on my tree.
- Abby, SPEAK*Girls Participant 2018
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